Self-defense comes from being educated!
Summer is over! And now it’s time for your child to head back to school. This blog will help parents navigate some difficult scenarios that may happen regarding children’s Safety and self-defense. It is important to educate your kids on how to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and defend themselves in a safe way. Parents should also educate themselves on their school district’s policies regarding these matters as well.
Children communicating with confidence
You have probably heard it before – bullies like to prey on other kids who they know are “easy” targets. Educate your child on communicating with confidence. Your child should have a strong, clear voice when needed and body language that also shows confidence. Examples are eye contact, upright posture, and facing a kid directly when communicating. When your child can communicate confidently, it will reduce the likelihood of dangerous self-defense situations.
Children’s self-defense: knowing your boundaries
Discuss emotional and physical boundaries with your child. What situations warrant your child simply ignoring a bully? What situations warrant your child setting a boundary by saying no? When should a child talk to a teacher or parent about a situation? When should a child have to defend themselves physically? Let your child know the emotional and physical boundaries that should not be crossed and how to respond appropriately.
When should children physically defend themselves?
In our kid's jiu-jitsu classes, we tell our students “your body is your body.” No other person has the right to touch, hit, push, or spit on your child. If this is happening and your child has tried to communicate with the person, attempted to set a boundary, or tried to communicate with a trusted adult or teacher, it may be time to use skills learned in a children’s self-defense class to physically defend themself.
Why is BJJ the best martial art for children’s self-defense?
Many martial arts teach striking as their main form of self-protection. Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, however, is a martial art focused on grappling (similar to wrestling or judo). Your child will learn how to defend against punches, kicks, biting, shoves, etc. They will learn how to take a fight to the ground and control a bully. They will be able to defend themselves without having to hit someone. This will reduce the chances of your child and the bully getting injured. This will also help to show the school district that your child was using self-defense rather than violence.
Self-protection through education
At NEWAZA BJJ CLUB, we have heard countless stories about how kids educated at our academy have been able to defend themselves effectively. In almost all of these cases, our students have not only come out unscathed, but the bully involved was not seriously injured as well. These children’s self-defense concepts are important so your child can have the confidence needed to have safe and healthy relationships.
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